Why 37days?

I have found as I’ve made my way into adulthood in this life of mine, that I share his dream. And I have dreams of my own.

I have a dream that we won’t fool ourselves into thinking Dr. King’s dream has been realized.

I have a dream that one day we will stand in lines all night long to find solutions to child abuse and child hunger, just like we stand in lines all night to buy iPads, and Harry Potter books, and tickets to the next Star Wars movie.

I have a dream that one day we will show up by the thousands in small towns across this nation and this world to show support for dismantling racism, just as we’ve shown up with incredible energy to win the right for a Google Fiber network to be put in our town.

I have a dream that we won’t abdicate our personal responsibility to the power of the internet and technology.

I have a dream that what happened to James Byrd and Matthew Shepard and Lawrence King will never happen to anyone else.

I have a dream that we will never see human beings as abstractions or “whats” but always as “whos,” people who are as fully textured as we are, whether they are the CEO or the homeless person in Pack Square.

I have a dream that we will wake up and realize the discrimination we impose on our lesbian, gay, transgender, queer, and intersex friends and neighbors is immoral, that we will be as ashamed of it in twenty years as we are of the behavior of our grandparents in the 1950s as they propagated discrimination against blacks.

I have a dream that no child will go hungry tonight, no child will be gang-raped in their lifetime, no child will be bullied into killing him or herself.

I have a dream that when we ask “how are you?” we will stop to hear the answer.

I have a dream that two monologues will never be confused for a dialogue.

I have a dream that every person who is contemplating suicide will find someone to reach out to instead.

I have a dream that we will protest disparities in our criminal justice system and health care system like our hair is on fire.

I have a dream that we find a way to walk toward and embrace the darkness in our lives as a rich soil for growth instead of protecting ourselves and others from it.

I have a dream that children who are spirited, who have autism or asperger’s, or who are now seen as outcasts or “problems” for any reason will be recognized for the gifts they bring the world.

I have a dream that peace is as prosperous as war.

I have a dream that everyone who was hurt or traumatized in their childhood will get the help they need not to perpetuate that pain into another generation.

I have a dream that either/or thinking will be abandoned in favor of both/and.

I have a dream that we will abandon the Oppression Olympics that keeps us from making real progress in the fights against “isms” of all kinds in our effort to be seen as most worthy of attention.

I have a dream that we will choose to be optimistic in the face of despair.

I have a dream that we will all spend a year getting to know someone who scares us.

I have a dream that we will all recognize we are the storyteller and not just the listener.

I have a dream that we will find prejudice and hatred and ridicule in others not as an occasion for prejudice and hatred and ridicule on our part, but as an occasion for learning and teaching.

I have a dream that we can all learn to give up our need to be right in order to hear one another’s perspective.

I have a dream that we will recognize we are always in choice.

I have a dream that women will one day be able to walk to their car late at night without holding their keys in their hands like a defensive weapon.

I have a dream that we will find a cure for MS, CF, ALS, spinal cord injuries, and cancer. And soon.

I have a dream that white males will be allowed to cry freely without being teased about it.

I have a dream that my children and your children will take the best of what we offer them and leave the rest behind.

I have a dream that teachers, nurses, and artists will finally be recognized for the national treasures they truly are.

I have a dream that teachers will make as much money as basketball players and will use the excess funds to transform our educational system into the one they long for, one that focuses on learning, and not teaching or containing or testing.

I have a dream that we will all sit quietly and very still for just 10 minutes every day.

I have a dream that we will learn how to listen half as well as we judge.

I have a dream that every week we will provide at least one meal to someone who is hungry.

I have a dream that giving is our national pastime, not getting.

I have a dream that every lonely child will find a friend who loves her.

I have a dream that we all find commonality amidst a glorious celebration of difference.

I have a dream that we stop confusing noticing difference with making a judgment.

I have a dream that we will consider volunteering to help others less fortunate to be our birthright, not our punishment.

I have a dream that, as Henri Nouwen said, we recognize community not as a place to dazzle each other with our talents, but as the place where our poverty is acknowledged and accepted…as a true source of new life.

I have a dream that you, too, have a dream.

(reposted from 2010)

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=712724047 Bo Mackison

    Wow, what a book that would make, or at least a gigantic poster. I have those dreams, too…

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1301604889 Tammie Delles

    I am a person of words, and must say that your words resonate so deeply within me as I read them, a true reflection of so many of my dreams, wishes, hopes for this small part of the Universe that we share. Thank you Patti for sharing…

    • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1428117387 Danielle Plunkett

      LOVE Patti Dingh!

    • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1428117387 Danielle Plunkett

      LOVE Patti Dingh!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=714311986 Holli Rickman Powell

    I’ve made a resolution to comment more on writing that really touches me, and this is the first candidate. I’ve shared this with everyone I know. Thank you for putting what I feel into beautiful words.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1310626983 Quinn McDonald

    You have good dreams, Patti. “I have a dream that two monologues will never be confused for a dialogue.” So very well written.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=691833884 Angel Flippen Blackmon

    Beautiful

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  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1630881292 Tamara Mangum Bailie

    Love this, Patti. Thank you for being. xoxo

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000026023800 Deborah Pogue

    Love to dreamers. Love to doers.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1642323429 Anna McGough

    Thank you Patti! I appreciate your dreams. A few in particular…nurses are national treasures and school teachers should be paid as much as NBA players!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=742330361 Rebecca Mullen

    I want to notice how Patti’s dreams have measurement and ask myself am I providing a meal a week, a listening ear, a dialogue…

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=633741004 Retta Ritchie-Holbrook

    I have this dream too.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=537004421 Ann Marie Lei

    “I have a dream that we all find commonality amidst a glorious celebration of difference…that we stop confusing noticing difference with making a judgment.” Well said, Patti. Thank you, once again, for the inspiration…

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  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=631614235 Susan Kinne

    Amen.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000649080922 Kari Boothroyd Tubbs

    Beautiful

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1033112297 Malena Lin

    It’s an impressive article full of true love and care from bottom of heart. That’s really warming people. I can’t agree more. Well written!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=759859415 Kirsten McAlpine

    Shivers.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1485491892 Barbara Kopf Israel

    Thanks so much for your words, Patti. Always inspiring. Your post made me think of this MLK quote that I read the other day: “I am convinced that if we are to get on the right side of the world revolution, we as a nation must undergo a radical revolution of values. We must rapidly begin the shift from a “thing-oriented” society to a “person-oriented” society. When machines and computers, profit motives and property rights are considered more important than people, the giant triplets of racism, materialism, and militarism are incapable of being conquered” -MLK “Beyond Vietnam”.

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  • http://www.bahareh.com bahareh amidi spiritual poet

    What a beautiful dream you have.
    I think this is one dream that is worth a thousand and one nights of sleepless nights.
    For me one line might sum up this dream and that is when you said, you have a dream that two monologues are not mistaken for a dialogue…. for what is more important than having a voice is to be heard……
    Thank you for speaking and thank you for allowing this space in which I hear.
    I too have a dream

 
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