Know your best

The best car is a teal Bug convertible.The best scooter is a teal Vespa.The best color is, well, teal.The best pasta sauce is Rao’s marinara.The best jeweler is Tony Malmed at Spirit of the Earth in Santa Fe, New Mexico. And Johan van Aswegen.  These are...

Erase hate

"You can safely assume that you’ve created God in your own image when it turns out that God hates all the same people you do." – Anne Lamott Hate has a long tail.  It is an emotional state with a deep history, an irrational and sad one. I...

Send leaves

“The most important thing that a father can do for his children is to love their mother.” -Theodore M. Hesburgh Only when we get to a certain age can we begin to see patterns in our lives, those choices made and not made, just as we have to be a certain distance from...